There is this feeling today that if something is common sense then it must be wrong, the new common sense is to oppose common sense. I shall call it neo-common sense (I like the word neo it sounds cool).
In my opinion this steams from urbanism, I noticed the more urban people are, the more elegant they are in mannerism and what display of beliefs. They just walk better, talk better. You can feel how much they are aware of everyone looking at them and rating them compared to rural people. The anxiety of being up to standards is just too much.
We claim to be not judgmental but there is always this aura of being judged around us, passive judgement. No one will say a word but you know for sure you are being judged.